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5 Tips For Keeping The Spark Alive In Your Marriage

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Just like with anything in life, familiarity in a relationship can often lead to feelings of boredom, loss of interest, and ultimately lack of desire. That’s especially true when said relationship has been going on for a number of years. That feeling of comfort you first experience can soon lead to too much comfort, and that’s when the boredom sets in and your marriage can begin to lose its shimmer.

It’s not as if the love between you two has weakened or anything like that. Rather, it’s that the spark you once had in the bedroom has begun to fade. And that’s totally OK! These feelings are natural and sure to arrive in any long-lasting relationship, though that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t change them for both you and your partner’s sakes. It also doesn’t mean you shouldn’t feel overwhelmed, because many of the tips you’re about to read for rekindling your relationship’s fire are quite easy. All it takes is an extra bit of effort on your part and before you know it, things will be spicier than you maybe even remembered.

Here are five tips for keeping the spark alive in your marriage…

1. Talk About It

Whether it’s from a renowned professional like Dr. Ruth or even your best friend looking to share some knowledge, the first step in getting that fire back is by talking about it. You and your partner need to feel comfortable enough to discuss what’s happened to this part of your love life, changes that you may have noticed in yourselves and in each other, and what can be done to fix it. Chances are you’ll already seen an improvement after the two of you share your likes, dislikes, and desires in the bedroom.

2. Stay Fresh, In More Ways Than One

This tip will seem obvious at first, but once you think about it, you’ll realize how crucial it is. And here’s the thing, staying fresh—as in maintaining your best appearance—won’t just inspire your partner to see you differently. You will also feel something inside of yourself getting stronger, and that “something” is confidence. There are few things more attractive than someone who is self-assured and feels good about herself. And in embracing that part of you, it’s likely that he will catch on and want to do the same. If not, it’s back to talking about it, because you’ll want to make those feelings known.

3. Embrace New Things Together

There are few things better than adding something “new” to a relationship as a means of stoking the flames, though it needs to be something the two of you have discussed. That’s especially true if you decide to introduce a new dimension to your bedroom activity, such as a sex toy. And just in case you think it’s only going to be for the woman in relationship, you’d be wrong. According to Adam & Eve, there are a myriad items that men and women can use together to explore a new part of your sex life. It can be as straightforward as a vibrator and a ring for his member, or you can get kinky and introduce some bondage toys. Whatever you choose, it’s up to the two of you decide on it together.

4. Keep The Surprises Coming

As explained on Discovery Health, breaking away from your routine is sure to keep things feeling fresh in your relationship. Now, you don’t want to completely disrupt things and throw in a wrench into specific plans, which can cause feelings of anxiety. Rather, find the perfect moment to surprise him. It can be with something as simple as a back massage or even his favorite drink. There’s also the option of making things a bit more obvious by, say, answering the door in a revealing outfit or new piece of lingerie. Whatever you decide to do, make sure that it’s fun for you, too. He’ll feel even better knowing that you’re getting an equal amount of pleasure out of it and will be sure to return the favor.

5. Always Remember to Touch

One of the easiest ways to get that spark back probably has never crossed your mind, but here it is: Just reach out and touch your partner. Seriously: Hold his hand, put your hand on his knee or thigh, rub his feet or shoulders, etc. These little additional touches are sure to remind you of the things you did for each other at the start of your relationship and maybe even bring back those original feisty feelings. This isn’t to say you should jump all over him—or he all over you. But trust me, you will be surprised by how much more romantic and passionate the two of you will feel through simple actions like these.

So there you have it! Hopefully these tips will help you in your quest to keep that flame burning strong, or perhaps get it back to where it was before. Good luck!

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